FAQs
Starting therapy often brings up practical questions, as well as uncertainty about what to expect. The answers below are intended to offer clarity and reassurance. If something you’re wondering about isn’t covered here, you’re very welcome to get in touch.
What can I expect from the first session?
The first session is an assessment and is simply how I begin the therapeutic process. It offers a calm, confidential space where we talk about what has brought you to therapy and what you are finding difficult at the moment.
This meeting allows me to listen carefully and understand your experience from your point of view. It also gives us both an opportunity to consider whether counselling or psychotherapy feels appropriate and whether we may be a good fit to work together.
The assessment is a two-way process. You can use this time to get a sense of me and the therapeutic space. We also talk about what the work might involve.
Do I need to know what I want to talk about before I start?
No. Many people worry that they won’t know what to say or where to begin. This is very common, especially if you haven’t had a space like this before.
Therapy does not require you to arrive with everything worked out or organised. Some people begin by talking about what has been on their mind recently, while others start with something small or simply with how it feels to be sitting there. Often, once the session begins, what needs attention naturally starts to surface.
There is no right or wrong way to begin. We take things one step at a time.
What if I feel nervous about starting therapy?
Feeling nervous or unsure about starting therapy is very common. Many people worry about what to expect, whether they will be listened to, or whether what they are experiencing is “enough” to bring.
You don’t need to have clarity before you begin. Therapy offers a space where you can talk at your own pace, and where your feelings and experiences will be met with care and respect. You won’t be judged for what you bring, and you won’t be told what you should or shouldn’t feel.
How long does therapy last?
The length of therapy varies depending on what you bring and what feels most helpful.
After the initial assessment, therapy is offered in six-week blocks, with weekly 50-minute sessions held at a regular agreed time. Working in six-week blocks provides a clear sense of structure and containment, helping the process feel manageable rather than open-ended or overwhelming.
Some people come with a specific difficulty in the present, while others arrive with longer-standing or more complex experiences, emotional patterns or relational difficulties. Whether the work is more suited to counselling or psychotherapy is something we explore together during the initial assessment, rather than something you need to decide in advance.
At the end of each six-week block, we take time to review how the work is going and to decide together what feels most appropriate next.
Do you offer online sessions?
Yes. I offer both in-person and online sessions. I hold a recognised certificate in online and telephone counselling and psychotherapy, so the work can take place safely and effectively in either format.
Some people prefer to attend sessions in person in a dedicated therapeutic space, while others find that online sessions offer greater flexibility. The quality and pace of the work remain the same, and we can discuss together what feels most suitable for you.
What happens if sessions feel emotional or difficult?
Therapy can sometimes bring up strong feelings, and this is a natural part of the process. My role is to offer a calm, steady and respectful space where whatever arises can be acknowledged and explored at a pace that feels manageable.
You are not expected to push yourself beyond what feels safe. We work together thoughtfully, with attention to what feels supportive for you in that moment.
How much do sessions cost?
Sessions are charged at £80 per weekly fifty-minute session, for both in-person and online work.
The initial assessment session is charged at the same rate and is a standalone session, with no obligation to continue.
If you are a therapist in training and would like to discuss fees, you are welcome to contact me directly.
What is your cancellation policy?
Because your session time is held specifically for you, I ask for a minimum of 48 hours’ notice if you need to cancel a session. Sessions cancelled with less than this notice, or missed without notice, are charged in full.
If you decide to bring therapy to an end, I ask for at least two weeks’ notice so that we can work towards a thoughtful and contained ending.
Is everything I share confidential?
Confidentiality is a central part of therapy. Everything shared in sessions is treated with care and remains private.
There are a small number of situations where confidentiality cannot be maintained, such as where there is a serious and immediate risk of harm to you or someone else, or where certain criminal acts are disclosed. In these rare cases, I have a professional responsibility to act in line with safeguarding and legal requirements.
Outside of these exceptions, sessions remain confidential.
Do you work with insurance providers?
I do not work directly with insurance providers and ask clients to self-fund their sessions. I am able to provide receipts for payment if needed.
How do I get in touch or book a first session?
The best first step is to get in touch by email. Many people contact me to arrange an initial assessment session or to ask a brief question before booking.
You don’t need to share personal details at this stage. A short message is absolutely fine.
What if I have further questions?
If you have a question that isn’t answered here, you’re welcome to get in touch by email. Many people contact me to ask a brief question or to check something before arranging an initial assessment session.
You don’t need to explain your situation in detail at this stage. A short message is absolutely fine. From there, we can decide together what feels most appropriate, whether that’s arranging a first session or clarifying any practical details.
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